A Sweet Baby Girl

I am so excited. We found out this afternoon that we are having a little girl. It is amazing how one little word can create soo many thoughts and feelings. Her name is going to be Anna Claire or Clare. not sure on the spelling yet. Also at the ultrasound we found out the placenta previa has cleared up. Thank God! That relieves sooo many worries. After the ultrasound we went and bought her going home outfit. It was so fun to pick it out! I will post pictures of the ultrasound and new outfit later. Fun times in the Blackaby house!

What is It? Vote Boy or Girl

On Thursday, Aug 30th we get to find out what gender Baby Blackaby is. We are both very excited about this! For me all of this will take on a more realistic feel after knowing what we are having. I just recently started feeling it move around ( you would think that would be enough) but actually knowing what it is going to be will more concrete. So..... what is your vote? Boy or Girl?

The Summer Review

I am so sad that summer is over! Actually it's been over for 2 weeks now but I am just now stopping to think about it. For it to be such a short summer it was a great one! Here's a review of the highlights.
1. Week in Virginia: I had a wonderful time with my friend Shirley, her husband David, and their daughter River. We visited all around the cool city of Richmond, caught up on life, received great advice about pregnancy and motherhood, and saw their new house. She is one of those great friends that you feel like you had coffee with the day before even though you really have not seen each other for 2 years.
2. 4th of July: My family all came up for the week of the 4th. It was such a fun visit! We ate ribs, took some tours of Nashville attractions, and went to see some of the best fireworks that I have ever seen. On the 5th my mom and sister when to Kentucky to look at houses / Asbury for my sister. She is going so seminary there in the fall. My dad and brother stayed 2 more fun filled days. We ate a variety of the international foods found here in Nashville. Indian, Jamaican, Greek and Fish Camp. It is rare that I get to hang out with just my dad and Jonathan so that was a nice treat. Robb and my dad had a fun time doing some projects around the house. I hated to see them leave!
3. Vacation: Robb and I had a great time on our vacation! We spent the 1st night in Lexington. We enjoyed some of the local fare and had a great time at a downtown music night- local guys but still community time. The Horse Park was the the goal for the next day. It rained on us the whole time but we did not let that stop us from taking in all the sights. Both of us have always loved horses making this a real treat. We even got to see the Man of War statue- which I have always wanted to see after being a large Walter Farley fan and reading his book on Man of War. That afternoon we headed to Louisville. When arriving we drove around and saw some of Robb's history. We ran by the church Robb's dad pastored, their old parsonage, and the high school Robb went to while there. I loved seeing these places and hearing the stories about their life there. We stayed right downtown at the lovely Hyatt. Right next to the hotel is a big gathering music place on Friday nights. The Violent Femme ended up being the act that night. Not that I honestly know a whole lot about their music but I know the name and it was cool to be part of that atmosphere. Saturday was the highlight of the trip with the surprised ability to go see the Police who were performing at Church Hill Downs. We had a great time at the concert! It was such a treat! Sunday we just hung out and then to find some local bookstores. We ended up going to this really cool section of town that had lots of unique stores and restaurants. Definitely a place to check out on another trip.
Work started back the day after we got home and I have been working ever since. It is a tough time of the year for School Counselors (at least at the High School level.) I have worked late almost every night these past 2 weeks. No fun! But everything must be ready for the kids to come back on the 1st. Hopefully it will all work out.

10 weeks and counting

Today I am 10 weeks pregnant. What an exciting time in life. Yesterday we went to our 2nd Dr. appointment and got to hear the heartbeat. That is really an awe inspiring moment!! I have been so relieved each time we have left the Dr. appointments and they have said eveyrthing looks great. I have been pretty blessed so far and have not felt to aweful terrible. I have had a good bit of off and on nauesea but it has not been constant or with many following results. Thank goodness. Prior to being pregnant I have only thrown up once since middle school. Now I can say twice.We were going to ask Mike McMullin to be the labor coach but based off his last blogg I guess that will not workout like We had hoped. Just kidding!!

It's the End of the Year As I Know It

Thank goodness I have reached the end of the school year. I have worked my extra time and starting Monday am officially free. This is part of my love for working in the world of education. You may not get paid alot but.. few get the sense of satisfaction that educators get from coming to the end of a year. I would have a hard time working in a job where there was not definite end/ marking of an accomplishment (survival) to each year. I have many plans of what I am going to do during this time.
Week 1- Clean/straighten the house/yard sale shopping/sleeping/ watching movies, teaching my dogs to behave, and going to the doctor to hear the heartbeat.- Emma Alexander is coming to visit on the weekend. Fun times!!
Week 2- Going to VA to see my friend Shirley and her new baby.
Week3- Another week of hanging out.
Week 4-2 days of work and then my parents are coming to visit for a couple of days.
Week 5-2 days of work then vacation to Louisville with Robb. Camping and then staying in a nice hotel for a couple of days.
Then is is back to work. But with a fresh start, new kids to guide, and new problems to overcome.

A Great Adventure

This past week Robb and I decided that we would go camping on Friday. As a teenager I loved going camping!! (of course we had a pop up camper- which is a lot different than a tent) anyway... I love the outdoors, nature all around, the smell of campfires, the sound of people living in community. When we married we registered for a tent and air mattress but in our two years of marriage ( our anniversary was last Monday) we had not gone camping yet. Friday after work Robb came to meet me at work with the 2 dogs and we set out to find a place to lay our heads. The 1st place we went to had no open spots, apparently now days you can reserve a spot on the internet. (who knew??) I knew there was another state park about 30 minutes from where we were so we set out once again. Half way there Layla got car sick all over Robb's seats. Yuck!! After taking care of the mess we hit the road again. We got to the park and found a great spot. It was exciting to set up the tent, and begin the fire.-The fire starting was not a process without frustration!! We knew how it should work but- however it does not "only takes a spark to get a fire going." We had a great dinner. I learned in my teen years how to make Hobo Meals that cook on the coals of the fire. We loved sititng around the fire, relaxing and talking. the great thing about camping is you can go to bed when it is dark. This is when the night started to go down hill for me. The dogs would not get quiet. They were a little nervous about sleeping out in the wild and barked at every noise! Everytime I would almost be asleep one of the two would start barking. It also grew pretty cold! The low that night was 46. We had plenty of sleeping bags but somehow ended up sharing one spred out. Everytime I would try to cover my face with the sleeping bag to keep it warm, I would somehoe uncover Robb's feet. He had no idea why I was pulling and would cover his feet again, pulling it off my face. And while air mattress are better than the ground, it is not my comfy bed. Needless to say, when the sun came streaming in at 5:30 am, I was not ready to get up and meet the excited dogs. I was in a bad mood!! But after walking the dogs, packing up, and heading to McDonalds, life looked much brighter. We will do it again but have learned some valuable lessons. Hopefully our next camping adventure will contain the fun parts of Friday along with maybe a little more sleep.

Mother's Day Reflections

I am so thankful for the wonderful mothers I have. Mothers?? Yes.. I have many women in my life who I consider to be mothers. I am truly blessed with my special mother who game birth to me, raised me, cleaned my dirty diapers, taught me to love God, and has become one of my greatest friends. My mom has set such an example of what is means to be a strong godly woman. I have also been blessed to have a wonderful mother in law. I am thankful that God blessed me with her! I love the times we get to spend at her house and am thankful for her support and love. I have feeling that there will also be many lessons learned from this added mother. She is a women of God who raised a wonderful son! Aside from these 2 moms, God has blessed me with many women who I see like "mothers." These women have sowed into my life in many ways. I have stayed at their homes, eaten at their tables, and probably added my share of dirt and ware and tear on their houses. Many of these women probably have no real idea of how much they impacted me. I don't send flowers or cards to these women but I am thankful that God placed so many wonderful people in my life. So many kids never have one positive impacting person, and I have been blessed with more than I can count. A Big Thank You to all these women!!